All for L.O.V.E.


Every day it amazes me how everyone is talking about love, respect and justice for Michael.
It seems to me that you all exactly know how to say and write these words, but acting like it, is a whole different story.

Let me start with your love for Michael.Maybe you have read  “Why Michael needs privacy” here on this blog, if you haven’t please do, because you are choking him with your love.
Because of that tremendous love he had to go trough horrible scenario’s, because the press wanted to write their dirty story’s for you.

What about respect? Do you think you have respect towards Michael when you Photoshop pictures of him?
A lot of them are simply becoming porn by doing that. I don’t wanna think about those young fans who will see these photo’s brrrr…
And lately the 3 former bodyguards who are trying to get their book published. Is this having respect for their former boss?
Telling about his private life and trying to make a buck….I think that they have to change their careers, because no one in their right mind will hire these three as their bodyguard, because when you turn around they will stab you in the back.
I know you want to know every little detail of Michael’s life, but what if this was you or someone from your family?
Think about that for just a minute. Let me give you the definition of respect according to Wikipedia….
Definition of respect: Respect means reverence or appreciation, one has to (or receive) any person because of his qualities, performance or skills. The word originally means to attend to, and then consider.
one can respect the views of one another, even if those views do not share. They let the other in its value
.

And justice….justice for Michael? Don’t make me laugh, because you all want justice but I really don’t think it’s for Michael.
We practically have to beg you for signing a petition that is about getting justice for him. 5 minutes of your time to sign up is too much to ask even if it is for your hero.

When I look at these 3 words and thinking about what is going on forums, Twitter and You Tube then nobody loves each other .
We from WAMJ are receiving mails and comments every single day from people who think they can insult us for having a different view on things. And that is ok, because we can handle people like you very well. There are also people who are contacting us for help. Yes help, because they are being threatened for not watching or commenting on hoax video’s, simply because they think he is dead or that he is alive, but feel that there are no clues so they don’t feel the need to watch your video’s. When they return to sender of the video and explaining in a polite way why they feel that way, they are being threatened.
Yes you read it right…..and not only them but also their families is being threatened because some hoaxers feel that it’s their fault that Michael doesn’t come back…
Hmmm…yeah that’s a real act of love and very respectful to people who haven’t done anything to you.

I have said it to someone before here on the blog, respect is something you have to earn, it’s not a right!
So start treating people like you want to be treated yourself, no matter what their believes are.
Try to be nice to each other and when you like to discuss your different point of views do that with some dignity towards one another.
We aren’t all the same, luckily, so we all think and see things different and we can discuss that in a decent kind of way here on the blog , on YouTube, twitter and yes even on the forums.
You deserve respect when you can discuss in an adult way without the name-calling and the threatening.
Make Michael proud…..make that change, it all starts with you!

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  1. Netoska
    September 15, 2010 at 22:24

    That’s the point..RESPECT.It’s a key word in human relationships:giving it,it’s neither easy nor granted.It’s an achievement of mankind. Some people seem to forget it..Neighbours,acquaintances,friends,collaborators,bosses…US! How can we possibly show the L.O.V.E. we all talk about without showing RESPECT? I think the 2s go together.. MJ was a great example for ur all..let’s show him we really care… Let’s defend him from such greedy so-called friends,former employees,or simple wannabes looking only for fame & money,but let’s do it with the same elegance of manners MJ was well known for.. Yes,it’s all for LOVE,but with RESPECT.

    • livinofthewall
      September 16, 2010 at 09:59

      You are so right Netoska, and like you said it isn’t only the case with MJ but in personal life too. Let me say that I experience that right now :). We do need to defend in the way you say we have too, that would him so very proud to all who know how to do that!

  2. September 15, 2010 at 22:29

    L.O.V.E. = R.E.S.P.E.C.T.

    “Respect is what we owe; love, what we give”

  3. KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
    September 16, 2010 at 01:58

    *Hear hear!

    L.O.V.E to you ALL. *group hug*

  4. KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
    September 16, 2010 at 02:47

    OK..I’m back..lol.. I just want to say that my heart literally ( ok…not literally..but it FEELS like it) breaks when I read some of the things posted in supposed love for and about Michael.. I just don’t get the hate that is still out there for this man, who had nothing in his heart but LOVE! I also don’t know why people don’t take the time to educate themselves about the FACTS of the molestation charges!! It’s all there in black and white people!!! (not yelling at you guys) WTF is WRONG with the haters?? And finally… I LOVE this blog.. I DO! I would give my very life.. YES.. I would… to bring Michael back to us, but weather he is alive or gone.. is NOT our business…. and I am HEARTBROKEN by all the peeps who think he is out there leaving clues so we can “smoke him out”.. Do these people even KNOW him?? How can ANYONE who claims to love him and GET him think that?? I’m sorry.. I have had wine with dinner tonight…lol.. and it has loosened my tongue… but COME ON! I feel helpless…hopeless…I don’t don’t know what to do to get the point across.. IF HE IS ALIVE>> LEAVE HIM ALONE>>> PLEASE!!! If you love him.. FIGHT FOR WHAT HE BELIEVED IN! Not for finding out the so called “truths”. Like this blog so LOVINGLY represents… RESPECT HIM!!!! Fight for what he believed/believes in.. but leave his private life ALONE!! I wish I could hug him.. oh my…….Sorry guys.. I love this blog….You are TRUE soldiers in his Army Of LOVE! ❤

    • livinofthewall
      September 16, 2010 at 09:15

      You are very right Kira, Why can’t they leave him alone. It really looks like they are doing this for themselfs instead of Michael. And it is exactly my point…why spending time looking for so called clues instead of doing something good. Words, words, words and no action at all.. And did you had to much wine??? haha live your life off the wall honey, makes it so much more fun 🙂

  5. karen
    September 16, 2010 at 03:19

    Something else that is earned is trust. Could he trust you?…As far as the petitions go, I have signed petitions and then received all kinds of requests to sign other petitions from various different organizations. I’ve even had a few phone calls on the Arizona Immigration debate and would I like to talk to my Senator, because they could connect me in seconds…hmmmm…how’d they get my name and number? I’m not saying it’s coming from MJ’s petitions but it does seem very suspicious that these things happened within days of each other…which may mean someone is using someone to get names…how do these people think MJ feels when everyone uses his name for gain?…TRUST…is earned…

    • livinofthewall
      September 16, 2010 at 09:21

      You have a very good point in earning trust Karen. If I may speak for MissZilda and MsDanish too, YES he can trust us. We have had an experience and that showed that he really can trust and rely on us. As far as signing petitions go..very strange indeed that the are calling you. I have signed almost everything there is and i haven’t heard from anyone. When someone contacts you ask them plz how they got your name and number because it is suspicious.

  6. Alice
    September 16, 2010 at 20:03

    Hi you all ❤
    First of all I want to say that I do agree about giving privacy to MJ's closed ones and to Michael whether you believe his alive or not. We should accept the fact that we do NOT have to know everything and I wish we would all find peace with this situation.

    I wish we all would remember how to show love to EACH OTHERS, and I wish we all would remember NOT to generalize.
    We dont have to put each others to different categories. We are ALL our own persons with our own ideals and own values. Our values are not just right or wrong.. nor can they be put to just one category.

    This I see to be the danger in what you're doing here. You have good articles that do have some good points.. but.. I guess the purpose is not to arise hatred towards each others.. right? No one can make a big enough change with judgements, that will NEVER ever work. And it's not possible to judge others with LOVE, or is it?

    I wish you peace, I hope the Sun will shine on us all :)) it's the same sun to all of us. We will have the possibility to show we love and CARE, all of us together. We have that possibility over and over again. No one can take that away from us. We can also do it to honour Michaels ideals if we want to.

    with love,
    Alice aka Laura

    • KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
      September 16, 2010 at 21:14

      Forgive me if I seem confused by your post..but.. I don’t understand what you mean about the danger in this blog. This blog is about respecting his privacy and memory..not about any kind of hate or judgments. It’s only about respecting Michael no matter what anyone believes. It is not hate twoard anyone..just FEAR that digging in Michael’s life..if he is alive…will hurt him. If he lives and wants to be found..he will come out, and if he wants to saty hidden..that’s his right an no one should try to figure anything out. Michael would never do anything like hoaxing his death…ever. if he didn’t die, it was reported that he did die for safety reasons and that’s all. . If he is dead, well…then think about how the hoax things make his family feel.

      and I don’t think he would fake a death because just think about all the merchandise that was sold in every area of retail (clothes, CD’s etc) If Michael didn’t die, then all the people who bought things and such, would have been deceived..and just MY opinion but.. I cannot ever see Michael putting SO many peeps through this pain for one second, let alone over a year. He knows that people work very hard for their money and some fans are quite poor and would go without some things just to buy some things by and for and about him. He just doesn’t have that in him. no way. If he is still alive, I doubt we will ever see him again…..at least not as “Michael Jackson”, ya know? Does that make sense?? lol Hungover a bit here. —with hugs and not hate– Kira 🙂

  7. KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
    September 16, 2010 at 21:20

    one more thing… if he did fake his death for WHATEVER reason. It was a damn good one, and just think..just think..how frightened he would be to see all the fans that love him so much, hunting him down. It would scare him to death. Lets say he faked his death because he is in genuine fear for his life…OMG he must be so hurt and scared now. looking over his shoulder..i can’t bear to think about him feeling that..no, I just can’t. I would kill myself if I was hiding in fear for my life and the world was determined to find me. Please let him have his safety and at least a TINY bit of peace of mind [please think about that. PLEASE

    Damn it I am blubbering like an idiot again!

  8. KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
    September 16, 2010 at 21:23

    I noticed my last comment says “awaiting moderation” did I do something wrong? I never saw that before. 😦 So sorry..please feel free to delete my posts. Genuinely sorry everyone.. 😦 😦

    • September 16, 2010 at 21:54

      No you did not do something wrong, Kira..;) if posting a link, certain words or just commenting for the first time, your comment is hold back for moderation. It is part of the spam filter in WordPress. I think you might have used a word included in the filter, although I dont know what word it should be. You would be surprised if you knew how much spam, the filters catches every day..;)

    • KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
      September 16, 2010 at 22:10

      *whew* LOL! SOOO glad to know that. :0 🙂 Cause I love yinz! *smile* Hmmm…the only thing I can think of that may have set it off would maybe be “kill myself” or “damn it!” LOL

      • KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
        September 16, 2010 at 22:11

        ROTFLMAO!! Yup…it was one of those two things I thought it was…cause that post says “awaiting moderation” as well. Heee!

        • September 16, 2010 at 22:13

          Haha..;) I think you are right..
          I can add that in the 4 months this blog has existed, the filter has caught 350 REAL spam comments. So it is effective.

          • KiraLovesMichael (VampKira)
            September 16, 2010 at 22:21

            Wowza! What a cool time saving tool to have! 🙂

            Spam BLOWS!

  9. carmen_jessie21
    September 16, 2010 at 21:24

    This is a “blog for those who cares”,I think the most part of us really care.
    I certainly do.I love and respect MJ from the bottom of my heart,I have signed the petition(with no unexpected consequences).I know there are some people who don’t have any trace of respect and they are doing some foolish things in the name of love;I really pity their ignorance.But I’m happy to say that here on this blog I’ve met people who cares,people whose comments I like to read,with open mind and common sense.I love you all and I respect you and what you are doing here.MJ should be proud of you and your laudable work.I trust you and your actions too,so keep going no matter what:the roots of the tree might have bitter taste,but the fruits will be so sweet…

    • September 16, 2010 at 21:58

      Thank you!! So nice to hear..;) I also signed the petition without consequences.
      We appreciate you all here on the blog, no matter what your beliefs are. This place is a safe-haven to Michael. All respect and love.

  10. vampkira
    September 16, 2010 at 23:34

    just testing ..finally got a legit account!! 🙂

  11. vampkira
    September 16, 2010 at 23:37

    awww..my avatar isnt showing. 😦

  12. Deanna
    September 19, 2010 at 01:19

    Now who is this person up above, “All For Love”, I can’t speak for everyone, but for me I resent you implying my love for MJ is not real, maybe you didn’t say it is to me personally, but it is there. Let me tell you something else, not everyone grieves the same way, some people can carry on, some can not, some manage to tolerate people who like to insinuate crap, not that I am pointing any fingers. As for the photochopped pics, I doubt they are meant as anything disresectful, and in most he does still have clothes on, and for the record anyone adult, or kid, will see all kinds of pics on Photobucket, MJ’s are not that bad. I mean most of us know him, so we know it is obviously someone’s fantasies, and so what, we miss him very very much, the pics I find disturbing are the ones that poke fun at MJ, and make rude comments, but I ignore them now. But to question our love for him, or our sincereity, that is not fair, I went into a major depression when he died, to the point where I wanted to be with him, I have not listened to anyone else’s music for over a year, his pics are all over my computer room, and I have a shrine made up for him that I am still working on.Only in the last 6 months have I been able to slowly start adjusting, although I know I will never be completely over this, I think of him every second of my every day, and still cry. Ayear ago, crying was a steady thing for me! As for the petitions, I have signed them all, but you also have to realize that people are not always going to make it is to vote, or sign a petition, it isn’t that they do not want to, but if you have a family, it is hard to keep up with these things. And as for MJ would feel, I think he would , or excuse me IS, very happy to know how much he was, and still is loved, very much. Losing MJ is something that shook the whole world, and practically brought it to a stop, I for one will never forget that horrible day! But judging people by how they show their love, or respect that is just wrong, and I do not think he would be offended by the photochopping, we have seen him in swimming trunks, and the gold pants, and he knew about the gold pants and what they do to him, yet he wore them anyways. He was a very sexual person, listen to his songs! The main thing is, you can’t expect people to stop being themselves, MJ would want everyone to go on, and to live life to the fullest. Just never forget him, and don’t forget he liked ripping his shirt opened, wearing the tight leather pants, and in the panther video he purposely has his fly undone, and the way he grabs himself, yeah right it is all our fault, uh-hu. Speaking for myself, I will always and forever love MJ, right through eternity, he is in my heart, and in my soul, and of course my memory. So chill out, and relax, and let people remember MJ in a way they see fit, it’s their memory….Deanna

    • livinofthewall
      September 19, 2010 at 14:10

      I think you did miss the whole point of the blog Deanna. A lot, and I don’t say everybody, are having their mouth full of love, respect and justice. Only a few are really doing something. Everybody grieves in his own way that’s right, but what we see has nothing to do with grief anymore. What I see is a group of fans who is hunting him down and want him no matter what. As for the pics….I got some pics from somebody where he doesn’t wear any clothes and those pics are manipulated in a very bad way that the would do very well in a porn magazine. Watch MissZilda’s latest video on YouTube and you can see the sensored ones im talking about. Michael would never be proud of pics like that if you remember what a shy person he is/was. Those pics has nothing to do with the love they have for Michael, it’s very disrespectful. What he did himself like ripping his shirt, zipping his fly and grabbing himself is very brave compared to the pics I have seen. We ask this question a lot..What if this was you or one of your relatives….think about it before you answer.

      • Alice
        September 19, 2010 at 20:55

        Should there be ANY videos on YouTube about those pics..? ughh.. ANY?? Would it be better if every single one just would vanish!??
        I do not want to offend, I’m as worried as you are. I’m not active here on this forum but anyway.. just wanted to throw a comment

        Hugs to you all, Alice

        • livinofthewall
          September 19, 2010 at 22:53

          If there weren’t any of those pictures all over the internet then we wouldn’t have to make a video about it. So if you want me to answer..yes it would be better if pictures like that would vanish, then we can sit back and chill :). You aren’t offending anyone, we are a friendly blog, not a forum, and we welkom everybody with open arms, and everybody is entitled to comment.
          Big hug back to you!

  13. carmen_jessie21
    September 19, 2010 at 20:42

    I’ve read what Deanna said,and I think she is right,I’ve read LOTW answer and she is right.Now,someone will tell me:”they can’t be both right” and I will answer:”you are right too…”

    • livinofthewall
      September 19, 2010 at 22:56

      haha you are funny Carmen-Jessy!

  14. Timothy610
    September 26, 2010 at 08:37

    Some interesting points were made here. Ah yes, the clues and the “affect” the hoaxers might be having on the family. Or is it “effect”? Well, hummmm…let’s talk about that for a minute, shall we? Herein lies the double-edged sword, now doesn’t it? To deny that clues – both visible and audible – were strategically placed for all to see would suggest naivety or just plain oversight. To deny that evidence (and especially the questionable pieces at that) don’t exist suggests the same. They have all been documented and thoroughly discussed all over the web. Some are more obvious than others, some hold more credence than others. Hence, the blatant clues and evidence themselves IS the mother that gave birth to the “hoaxers” in the first place, not some far fetched, way out there, conspiracy theorists. More importantly is the fact that the family themselves provided a great deal of the evidence and clues. So if MJ did all of this because he wanted to be “left alone”, as some here have insinuated, then why leave all the clues in the first place? Seems awfully counter-intuitive to that cause, wouldn’t you agree? So while the “affect” may not be what one initially envisioned, the cause-and-“effect” can never be denied. Unless, of course, you are attempting to change history, which we all know from past experience has dire consequences. To a child, striking matches can be quite intriguing – right up to the point that they start a forest fire and the heat from which overwhelms them. Yes, we feel bad for the child but the cause-and-effect of that fire remains the same, never the less. The point is simple; you can’t have your cake and eat it too – then blame the dogs for it’s disappearance. It’s just not that simple. Is it really all for love? Oh, I’m sure that was the original vision, yes, but it’s the pent up and long (too long), drawn out, frustration of not knowing full truth and missing someone you love dearly that is the root of what challenges and degrades that communal love. Once again, cause and effect at play here that “affects” us all. Certainly he and his family must realize this by now. Prudence would dictate that if REAL love is REALLY there, it would put an end to all the pain and suffering of those “affected”. So again, I ask, is it all for love or for something else? Which is the greater to possess? Which is the key that opens the gates to heaven when that day arrives? Side note: It’s his world, we just choose to live in it (or not).

    • livinofthewall
      October 27, 2010 at 10:46

      Why do you think the “clues” were strategically placed? WHY is Katherine going to so much trouble (at 80 years old) by suing AEG and everybody who is direct/indirect responsible for Michael’s dead? I’m not saying he is dead because I don’t know but why putting so much energy in this so called hoax instead of fighting for Justice for Michael. I think that is much more importend and relevant then going trough every little detail of his private life. That’s what clueseekers has to do out of love for Michael.

  15. September 13, 2011 at 17:38

    totally agree !

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